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Accountability Questions

Monday May 5, 2008   ~   6 Comments

Yesterday, I finished up my series through James. I promised to include some accountability question list examples here. These lists are from Cultivating a Life for God (Church Smart Resources 1999 pp.125-131).

Typically, these questions are asked in groups of 2-3, are specific to men or women, meets regularly, and hold each other accountable.

John Wesley's Small Group Questions:

1. Am I consciously or unconsciously creating the impression that I am better than I am? In other words, am I a hypocrite?

2. Am I honest in all my acts and words, or do I exaggerate?

3. Do I confidentially pass onto another what was told me in confidence?

4. Am I a slave to dress, friends, work , or habits?

5. Am I self-conscious, self-pitying, or self-justifying?

6. Did the Bible live in me today?

7. Do I give it time to speak to me everyday?

8. Am I enjoying prayer?

9. When did I last speak to someone about my faith?

10. Do I pray about the money I spend?

11. Do I get to bed on time and get up on time?

12. Do I disobey God in anything?

13. Do I insist upon doing something about which my conscience is uneasy?

14. Am I defeated in any part of my life?

15. Am I jealous, impure, critical, irritable, touchy or distrustful?

16. How do I spend my spare time?

17. Am I proud?

18. Do I thank God that I am not as other people, especially as the Pharisee who despised the publican?

19. Is there anyone whom I fear, dislike, disown, criticize, hold resentment toward or disregard? If so, what am I going to do about it?

20. Do I grumble and complain constantly?

21. Is Christ real to me?


Wesley's Band Meeting Questions:

1. What known sins have you committed since our last meeting?

2. What temptations have you met with?

3. How were you delivered?

4. What have you thought, said, or done, of which you doubt whether it be sin or not?

5. Have you nothing you desire to keep secret?

Reference: John Wesley's Class Meetings: a Model for Making Disciples, by D. Michael Henderson, Evangel Publishing House, 1997, pp. 118-9


Chuck Swindoll's Pastoral Accountability Questions:

In his book, The Body, Chuck Colson lists the questions used by Chuck Swindoll.


1. Have you been with a woman anywhere this past week that might be seen as compromising?

2. Have any of your financial dealings lacked integrity?

3. Have you exposed yourself to any sexually explicit material?

4. Have you spent adequate time in Bible study and prayer?

5. Have you given priority time to your family?

6. Have you fulfilled the mandates of your calling?

7. Have you just lied to me?


Neil Cole:

1. What is the condition of your soul?

2. What sin do you need to confess?

3. What have you held back from God that you need to surrender?

4. Is there anything that has dampened your zeal for Christ?

5. Who have you talked with about Christ this week?

HT: Journey

The questions I use are from these cards from Church Multiplication Associates. I keep one in my Bible.

The ten questions are as follows:


1. Have you been a testimony this week to the greatness of Jesus Christ with both your words and actions?

2. Have you been exposed to sexually alluring material or allowed your mind to entertain inappropriate thoughts about someone who is not your spouse this week?

3. Have you lacked any integrity in your financial dealings this week, or coveted something that does not belong to you?

4. Have you been honoring, understanding and generous in your important relationships this past week?

5. Have you damaged another person by your words, either behind their back or face-to-face?

6. Have you given in to an addictive behavior this week? Explain.

7. Have you continued to remain angry toward another?

8. Have you secretly wished for another's misfortune so that you might excel?

9. Did you finish your reading this week and hear from the Lord? What are you going to do about it?

10. Have you been completely honest with me?



HT

Related post: Avoid Any Hint

Posted on May 5, 2008 at 1:00 PM   ~   6 Comments

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6 Comments

By debbie d. on May 5, 2008 4:04 PM

Wow, what started out as just my typical run through the Good Doctor's blog, turned into church and then just full fledged meddling on your part! THANKS for posting these questions Big Cheese!

By Alvin Reid on May 5, 2008 6:19 PM

Thanks Ed. You may want to know Dr. Akin sent a very strong and helpful email to our community this week and noted your blog in this (and mentioned your new relationship with us for which I am most grateful). Another site I have used in accountability is characterthatcounts.org, which has excellent questions for men, for women, youth, etc. Thanks for this reminder.

By Ben Birdsong on May 5, 2008 6:21 PM

Accountability is so essential in each of our journeys with Christ. Thanks so much for the suggested questions to continue the conversation. It is so encouraging to seek to live for God in the context of a community, and this is a great resource to deepen that community. Thanks!

By TOM CARR on May 6, 2008 8:28 PM

Dear Ed:

Web are so thankful for your messages at FBC Hendersonville. It was not just a coinsidense that you moved to Hendersonville just before Brother Glenn went to be with the Lord.

God bless you and your family.

Tom & Ginger Carr

By MDSF on May 7, 2008 10:38 AM

Thanks for posting these lists together. I'm amazed reading how shallow Chuck Swindoll's list is compared to the first list and the last.

Of the big three temptations (money, sex, and power) I think it's telling that he only mentions sex, and that twice.

By @jgrubbs on January 21, 2010 8:12 PM

I recently started using the LTG cards from CMA Resources that you mentioned in this blog post. They are great! I have found that I am really enjoying my Life Transformation Group and looking forward to seeing it multiply in the coming year.

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