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Today, I'm Not Around

Friday August 15, 2008   ~   12 Comments

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It is our 21st anniversary and we are celebrating like it was our 20th.

Last year, we were unpacking boxes on August 15th, have just moved to Nashville to work at LifeWay. So, instead of celebrating, we were organizing. Needless to say, I promised my wife a better time this anniversary.

So, I am in Chicago. We are staying in a nice hotel on the Magnificent Mile. We are sleeping late, going to movies, seeing shows, and just enjoying each other. On Sunday, we will be at Community Christian Church and grab lunch with my friend Dave Ferguson. I will stay over till Tuesday to shoot a television program with the Assemblies of God (which gave me the excuse to come to Chicago this weekend).

Donna and I started dating in High School. Donna was the first (and only) girl I dated seriously. We went to the prom, then off to college together. When we were 20 years old, she was crazy enough to marry me. So, between our Junior and Senior years of college, we got married.

She is a wonderful friend and an amazing wife.

She loves Jesus. We first met when she came to a Bible Study I was leading in high school. She had led about 6 of her friends to Christ that year.

She is not afraid of difficult things. She supported us as I planted our first church while going to seminary on the weekends... and earned a Masters degree while I was earning mine. We have planted multiple churches, worked to revitalize a few, and not chosen the easy paths in life.

I have dragged this woman to the inner city of Buffalo, NY to plant a church among the urban poor. Then, off to a blue collar community of Erie to plant again. Four months after Kristen was born, she came with me to Louisville where I taught at seminary (which was much more challenging than Buffalo!).

Once she was pregnant again, of course I dragged her to Georgia to work at NAMB and then to evantually plant a church in our free time . And, now we live in Nashville where I travel too much.

She has never complained and she had every right to. We have literally grown up together and now we are raising kids together. I look forward to growing old together.

Now, I watch her continue to grow and I see her life poured into our 3 daughters. And I am grateful every day.

So, today is her day. And, I am honored that she would call me her husband!

Posted on August 15, 2008 at 4:00 AM   ~   12 Comments

Tagged with: anniversary, aog, chicago, community christian church, donna, love, marriage, personal, wife

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12 Comments

By Todd on August 15, 2008 9:36 AM

Ed,

Congratulations to you and Donna!

By Steve and Mary Beth on August 15, 2008 11:06 AM

Happy Anniversary! Donna must be some woman. We can't wait to meet her sometime.

Enjoy your time together and thanks for helping out the good ole' A/G.

By greg huguley on August 15, 2008 11:47 AM

I can't believe you're in Chicago and didn't stop by to see your old friend Greg in Elgin (grin) Way back at Shorter, before those of us who knew you had met Donna, the consensus was--she must either be just like you or she must be one really great woman (big grin). And of course we concluded, she was one really great woman. Happy anniversary--and many more.

By Chuck Gaines on August 15, 2008 2:52 PM

send me a picture of you and donna on the "Big Wheel" - at the top - and I'll buy you a steak dinner!

By Thom Rainer on August 15, 2008 3:08 PM

And Donna walked with you through your greatest trial: working for Rainer . . . twice!

By Larry on August 15, 2008 4:36 PM

Congratulations! Enjoy your time away together.

Hey, wait! Didn't I get an email from you a couple of hours ago?

Does Donna know about this?

Hmmmmm...this could be worth some blackmail.....

By Ed StetzerAuthor Profile Page on August 15, 2008 6:41 PM

Thom, we are having much more fun the second time. Grin.

Larry, not all the emails send out in my name come from me!

Ed

By Mark on August 15, 2008 7:57 PM

Congratulations on your marriage!

Thanks also for your great ministry and books. With God's help, I am currently planting organic churches in the city of Chicago and loving it! Be blessed this year and the years to come!

By bob roberts on August 15, 2008 8:00 PM

if you really loved her we ypu wouldn't make her go too church tomorrow

By Joe Baskin on August 15, 2008 8:47 PM

Hope you and Donna have a wonderful time! I am proud of you.

By bob roberts on August 16, 2008 4:54 AM

Ed, excuse my typos earlier - missed them somehow - I'm learning to use my new iPhone to take it global with me. Now, stay in bed - watch a little whoever you want on TV preachin' then party baby!

By Sherri Kightlinger on August 18, 2008 8:25 AM

You just made me cry! You do have an amazing wife and she is a great friend and I miss you both -- Happy Anniversary. Twenty one years is awesome!

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