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Monday April 19, 2010   ~   7 Comments

Thanks for coming by the blog to comment. In order to facilitate conversation, we are seeking to be good hosts. That is always a difficult task because so many struggle with good conversation-- leading an increasing number of Christian blogs to shut down comments. In order to make this a good place for conversation, we have to be wise stewards of the forum here.

To do that, we have created some comment policies at the blog. If you are a regular reader, you can help by pointing out the policies to those who may wander astray.

My hope is that the end result will be a conversation that honors God, leads to learning, and provokes us to love and good deeds.

In order to facilitation good conversation, please keep the following in mind:


1. Please do not post anonymous comments.


There are few exceptions to this rule (such as being a missionary in a restricted access country) and you must state "why" in your comment. You must have a real and verifiable email to go with that real name (though that email will never be shared). If you have a blog or website you should include that, but it is not required.

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The point of a blog is to have discussion. If I wanted to post my opinions and have you just read them and marvel at my brilliance (a joke), I would not have a blog. I welcome the discussion, but they need to be polite and on point. Do not use my blog for your agenda. If you can add to the discussion, please do. If you just want to use my blog to promote your views because my blog has wide readership, don't.

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In internet slang, a troll is someone who posts inflammatory, extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community, such as an online discussion forum, chat room or blog, with the primary intent of provoking other users into an emotional response or of otherwise disrupting normal on-topic discussion.


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7 Comments

By billy on April 19, 2010 4:02 PM

C'mon Ed, you wouldn't need a comment policy if you would JUST PREACH THE GOSPEL... ;-) Seriously though, thanks for providing a great forum for important conversations!

By Ryan Wallace on April 19, 2010 4:22 PM

How can we get these directions out to every blog in existence! If this actually happens on this blog and in any other blog for that matter, I may actually take the time to read the comments section. Also, Ed, are you adding the Calvinism vs Arminianism debate to your "off-topic" comments...I sure hope so.

Good luck with your moderation, and in making the web a better place.

Thanks

By Josh Mueller on April 19, 2010 4:53 PM

Maybe you should put the following pic on the side-bar permanently:

http://files.nireblog.com/blogs/ateyavana/files/please-do-not-feed-the-hoboken-trolls.jpg

By Bob Cleveland on April 19, 2010 4:54 PM

I don't have a comment but do have a question: in what state are those restricted counties?

Had no idea NAMB had missionaries in really dangerous places.

:)

By David R. Mills on April 19, 2010 5:03 PM

Do you know how hard this is goin to be for a hard shell, foot stomping, spitting fundamentalist? I will try :)

By Ed StetzerAuthor Profile Page on April 19, 2010 11:46 PM

Bob,

Thanks for pointing out the typo. It now says, "country." That makes more sense.


David,

You can do it. I know you can! ;-)

Ed

By Donna on July 14, 2010 6:43 PM

I know you were talking to pastors in these videos but can I please share the plea of my heart as a member. I moved from a metro-area to a rural area. I am use to using my gifts to serve in areas that champion the marginalize: the homeless, those with educational needs, the elderly, the poor, minorities, etc. I am having a problem with finding an outlet for my gifts in my new church. When I inquired it was suggested that I go change some diapers in the nursery. I'm wilting here. Any suggestions for someone who WANTS to use her gifts in the church but can only find secular outlets. Don't say change churches, I tried 15 in this small area and this is the best one. Help!

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