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Everyone has had something to say about "The New Atheism." The New Atheist movement has been characterized by intellectually robust, agressive public discourse contra Christianity. Christians, in some cases rightfully so, have been outraged by comments that atheists like the late Christopher Hitchens have made. The center of Christian apologetics for the past decade, for some, has centered around Hitchens, Richard Dawkins, and Sam Harris. Continue reading Reflections on the Death of Christopher Hitchens.
Thursday December 8, 2011 ~ 2 Comments
![]() In a recent issue of Outreach Magazine we were asked to share our testimony of transformation. I shared how Christ saved me and gave me new life. Here is my column.
As a follower of Christ, sharing our testimony is always new and fresh. Yes, it was over 30 years ago, but I still remember it-- not because my memory is great but because Christ change me. It started that day and continues every day. If you aren't already subscribing to Outreach, it's a great resource. Wednesday September 21, 2011 ~ 17 Comments
In July, the organization formerly known as Campus Crusade for Christ, founded over half a century ago by Bill Bright, announced the changing of its name to "Cru." And, in less time than it takes a seraph to say "holy, holy, holy" the condemnation began. Some accused the leaders of kowtowing to political correctness while others saw it as part of a continuing trend to remove Christ from the public discourse. How exactly a thoroughly evangelistic, solidly biblical organization removes Christ from public discourse is well beyond my powers of reason, but this was exactly the interpretation that came from none other than Fox News. With the headline "Prominent Christian ministry drops 'Christ'" and in an interview with Cru's U.S. Vice-president (Steve Sellar); Fox made the charge that the decision was specifically about dropping Christ from the name. It really is frustrating that so many wholeheartedly buy into the media when it supports their preconceptions and that so many seem unable or unwilling to think for themselves on the issues. It may be accurate that Fox is more conservative than CNN or MSNBC, but they, too, fall into the trap of producing entertainment and calling it news. In other times they try to make a story when none exists. The reality is that Cru has an entire page of its website dedicated to the decision process there revealing, among other things, that more than 1,600 names had been considered and that the old name "Campus Crusade for Christ" no longer represented their mission since they were larger than a campus ministry. It was also enlightening-- and heartening-- to see them considering the negative effects the name had in Muslim countries. From the Cru website: Our name presented obstacles to our mission. The word "campus" does not adequately represent all our ministries in the United States and confuses our constituency as well as potential partners. The word "crusade"-while common and acceptable in 1951 when we were founded-now carries negative associations. It acts as a barrier to the very people that we want to connect with. It's also a hindrance to many Christians who would like to partner with us but find the word Crusade offensive. When your name is a hindrance to your mission you have three options: Change the mission, change the name, or suffer the consequences. I'm glad they chose to change the organization's name, as the other two choices were certainly less than optimal for the Kingdom. Another bandwagon hanger-on was the now ex-Fox News personality, Glenn Beck. Apparently with little research being done, or with that little research being ignored, Beck launched into a foundationless tirade against the name change that would make...well...Glenn Beck proud. He said, at the beginning of his mocking rant, "They decided Christ might be offensive." The problem here is this: Beck's challenge is demonstrably false. Both the website and the interview with Steve Sellars make it plain that the name change was not to deny anything, but rather to increase the impact of their ministry. Why do so many evangelicals believe someone like Glenn Beck rather than the trusted leadership of Campus Crusade? Even more out of touch were some of the comments on Beck's website. After wading through that garbage for a few minutes one might get the idea that Cru had been taken over by a group of atheists who were steering it away from Bright's original vision for proclaiming the gospel of Jesus. In fact, as Sellars and Vonette Bright (Bill's widow) both point out; Bill Bright himself had been promoting the idea of a name change for decades. It is true that Christians can be suspicious because of institutions and organizations that experience theological drift: the Young Men's Christian Association (YMCA, now "The Y"), Harvard and Yale universities come to mind. However, regardless of how finely tuned a person considers their own news radar to be, Christians do not need to be like blue whales indiscriminately swallowing all the plankton around them. Gullibility is not a fruit of the Spirit. Just because it is on Fox News doesn't mean it's true and just because Glenn Beck says it does not make it worth repeating. We must use a biblical filter of truth and error, of foolishness and wisdom. This is far too often lacking. Perhaps those who claim the name of Christ should trust their brothers and sisters who also claim the name of Christ. I think we're on the same team, after all. So ill-aimed were the criticisms leveled at Cru that John Piper felt obliged to weigh in: Glenn Beck ridiculed the change as he wadded up the report and threw it away. His entire focus was to attack the wimpy people who avoid using the name Christ for fear of giving offense. The problem with Beck is that he cared nothing about dealing with the real problems created by the name "Campus Crusade for Christ." This is not to say that Cru didn't make a mistake by failing to anticipate such a negative response-- I think they did. Ultimately, though, the names of organizations matter less than their fidelity. I was amused at people who expressed disapproval, emphatically stating the need for "Christ" to remain in the name, likening the change to being ashamed of Christ. I guess the Wesley Center, Reformed University Fellowship, InterVarsity, The Navigators and Baptist Campus Ministries have been denying Jesus for a long, long time. Thankfully, a broad representation of Christian leaders rose up in defense of Cru's leadership. For what it is worth, I think Cru is a great name, because it describes a great organization filled with people who seek to make the name of Christ more widely known. Feel free to weigh in and discuss in the comments below (be sure to review the comment policy). If you would like to talk about the potential name change for the Southern Baptist Convention, please join the conversation at my Between the Times post. Monday September 19, 2011 ~ 6 Comments
I've had this conversation many times-- it seems that many think that you are a mindless automaton if you attend a megachurch-- a mindless consumer, unengaged in mission. People think this was because, well, it is true at times. I do have some concerns about some megachurches-- when it is all about the preacher and all about the weekend, I am concerned. You should be too. Yet, I also think that there are megachurches that are indeed seeking to be missional. I have written about it in Outreach Magazine and had a video debate about it with David Fitch in parts 1, 2, and 3. Will it be hard? Yes, it always is. However, the "bigness" of the megachurch makes it harder. In a megachurch, it is easy to come for the show but not connect with others and serve. Last Sunday, I preached at James River Assembly of God in Springfield, MO on this very topic-- how to move people from sitting in rows, to sitting in circles, to provoking one another to love and good deeds (Hebrews 10:24), to living as agents of God's mission. Yet, James River is leading its over ten thousand regular attendees to be in small community and live as agents of God's mission. I taught the James River Life Group leaders on Saturday with a new seminar I am almost finished developing for megachurch pastors, staff, and key leaders to help engage their whole church in missions-- to move people from being passive spectators to active participants in the mission of God. It is almost done, and I will share the final product with the megachurch pastors of the Vineyard Church in a forthcoming meeting this November. I am excited about what God is doing in many megachurches, but I also know that not everyone is. Just BEING a megachurch will get you a bad reputation in many places. Furthermore, many predict the demise of the megachurch, but that is a prediction driven by a lack of information. The number and size of megachurches is increasing. As an aside, I think that the megachurch is a growing trend and the house church is also a growing trend-- at the same time. For what it is worth, I am excited about both. God has used the megachurch to reach Korea and the house church to reach China. Let's hold our models loosely and our Jesus firmly. At LifeWay Research we love both small and large churches. My last article in Outreach Magazine was called, "Small is the Kingdom Big." But, today, we look at how God is at work in larger churches. I'm thankful for both. In this month's Outreach Magazine, I have an article about some applicable principles that we found in our recent research into the largest and fastest growing churches. The full issue is here. Below are some excerpts: Based on our findings, we identified four specific action points for some large and growing churches. Some will relate to all churches, some will relate only to large churches, but either way I hope you find them helpful and rejoice with these churches. Feel free to jump in and discuss in the comments. Wednesday September 7, 2011 ~ 45 Comments
On a recent post I reviewed the newly released movie, The Help, in two parts (part 1 dealt with the movie, part 2 dealt more with issues of race). As I noted then, the main issues in the movie are race and class, and people should not miss those, but I was struck by yet another issue. As I tweeted from the movie: "The Help's mix of elitism, judgment, & scorn (wrapped in cultural religion) is STILL real & even taught as discipleship in some places." Hilly Holbrook is the antagonist in the film, pitted against the two protagonists, an African-American maid and a young white woman writer, both of whom wanted something different than they inherited from society. But Hilly was a respectable "Christian" woman who took it as her responsibility to teach people cultural values and to look down on those who did not embrace her specific beliefs. When given a chance to help a maid in need, for instance, she takes the position that God would want her to work harder. Never mind that the average maids were making less than $1.00 an hour and many African-American men had to work for terrible wages as well. Hilly took it upon herself to keep people "in their place." Ultimately, she scorned everyone she didn't like or who didn't measure up to her standards-- and she did so using her "Christian" beliefs as a club. Grace was not a part of her life; it was all judgment and condemnation. And, the condemnation was built around the idea that others were just not "good Christian women."
As the movie played, I felt some strong emotions. I wanted to stand up and shout at the Hilly character: "I know you. You hurt people, and you do so in the name of religion." Hillys are still too common in the world where I live. They may not be focusing on the exact same issues she concerned herself with, but the tendency is the same. Cultural norms become elevated to the level of defining what it means to be a Christian-- particularly a "good Christian woman." I've seen how being a "good religious woman" that fits religious-cultural expectations destroys the lives and passion of women. My wife calls such training, "making Stepford Wives." While I watched The Help, I could not help but consider how many times I have seen that "Hilly look" when some women did not want to fit the same mold. There are biblical values and direction for the home and church-- and I believe they matter. That is not what this post is about. I have the utmost respect and admiration for my wife as she cares for our children and our home. I believe there is no greater calling than motherhood. Yet, for many, it is not just valuing motherhood that matters. They have taken the forms and structures of a particular American religious sub-culture and elevated them to the level of what it means to be a follower of Christ. Is it really biblical discipleship to look down on those who do not adopt our same forms and cultural values wrapped in religious language? Gospel-centered values must not be confused with the values held by Hilly Holbrook and her spiritual kin who look with scorn upon those who don't line up with their cultural religion--a religion that kills as thoroughly and completely as that of the Pharisees. I teach my daughters what the Bible says about men and women. I also teach them to watch out for people who teach Biblical womanhood by looking at others with elitism, judgment, and scorn. That's a cultural religion and it kills. I've seen its result (up close) in people who have been told that their gifts did not matter if they could not set the right table setting-- and it's wrong. Think about the implications of such unbiblical teaching. I have yet to find, in the Bible's lists of ungodliness, "You forgot the salad fork." Nor when Jesus spoke about the sheep and the goats did He say, "I stopped by for a visit and you didn't serve me tea." And I cannot imagine a Bema Seat scenario during which Christian women are judged by Miss Manners. Yet, with this pseudo-religious, cultural emphasis on housekeeping, you'd think "tending the flower garden" was a fruit of the spirit. Maybe you cannot relate to the specific scenarios I'm suggesting. But ask women about their anxieties when having others (especially other women) into their homes. Many know they will be judged on the basis of how clean, comfortable, or "classy" their house is. It's a softer, more feminine legalism, but just as deadly as any other variety. Hilly is alive and well teaching a cultural religion, all while confusing it with biblical womanhood. Too often I see tribalistic expressions of "biblical" femininity under the guise of biblical fidelity. Reject this unholy caricature--rebel against anything other than what the scriptures actually say. We need to speak out when we see cultural expressions forced on people as if they were biblical norms, even if it is dressed up as a self-improvement project. It is legalism. If a rose by any other name smells as sweet, then legalism by any other name still smells like the decomposing corpse it is. I agree with Chuck Swindoll who explained:
Yet, I also feel a bit of sympathy for those who have been locked into the cultural religion trap. I hurt for those who are so convinced they are right and are compelled to make people conform to their own ways of believing, way less biblical than cultural. They have long lost the joy of their salvation. At the end of the movie, Aibileen, who loses her job after her boss is pressured into firing her, asks a crying Hilly,"Ain't you tired, Miss Hilly? Ain't you tired?" People who spend their lives imposing cultural rules rather than living for a radical gospel do get tired. And they should; trying to live by rules and regulations does get tiring. I'd like to ask you Aibileen's question to those purveyors of cultural religion, "Ain't you tired?" Ain't you tired of creating rules that impose cultural values as if they were biblical teachings?" Maybe I am the wrong person for such a post-- a white, complementarian man in a conservative denomination. Yet, too often I see conservative evangelicals propagating cultural expressions of religion under the guise of biblical fidelity. At the end of the day, I think we can hold our best understanding of our scriptural convictions about gender and not re-create Stepford. Ironically, the Proverbs 31 woman-- a strong, female business owner-- would be shunned in many of the very places that proclaim that chapter. She would not fit into the cultural values masquerading as biblical truth. I am encouraged that some are rejecting Stepford and are following God's call and looking for more. Sharon Hodde Miller, who I met at The Summit Church and learned of her work from my friend J.D. Greear, put it this way on this blog back in 2008:
Some will pursue and live the high value of motherhood. Others will not marry at all. Some will stay home with their children, others will work in business, charity, and government. As all follow Christ, we can rejoice. Many of the readers of this blog are Christian leaders. I urge you to stand up to the legalistic machinery that demands the production of Stepford Wives. (Since Donna is a pastor's wife, and this expectation issue is common there, I will also add: defend the pastors' wives and make space for those who are not in the mold of this pseudo-Christian sub-culture.) The priority for all women who are followers of Christ is that they be encouraged to the abundant life that Jesus has for them, following him with passion as he leads them. Hilly did not think that others were "good Christian" women. I think some good Christian women are wonderful hostesses and I thank God for them. Others run businesses, some fight poverty, still others move to Nepal as missionaries. I thank God that Hilly (and her modern counterparts) did not get ahold of them before Jesus did. A woman's place is following Jesus. Wednesday August 17, 2011 ~ 2 Comments
These posts come from a lengthier article I wrote for the Assemblies of God Enrichment Journal. The entire issue is worth your time and you can access it here. Read the first three parts here. Here I talk about "sexual deviants." It's intentionally strong language, but it gets at the point– there is much deviation from God's norm and God's plan. My hope is that we might deal with the issues– and the people– in the way Jesus calls us to do.
What would Jesus do? The question is popular but dangerously hypothetical. When we watch Jesus in the Gospels we can ask a better question: What did Jesus do? Jesus actively engaged the people of his culture, even those considered sexually immoral. Some of the more famous sexual deviants from the Bible were all associated with Jesus: Sinful Woman (Luke 7:36-50); Woman at the Well (John 4:13-26); Woman in Caught in Adultery (John 8:3-11). Obviously there was risk involved. His reputation was damaged by his social interactions.
We should realize that our own vulnerabilities are exposed when we become too comfortable with those far from God. Conversely, our pride is exposed when we hold ourselves as too holy to interact with them as well. As Jimmy Flynt (the brother of Hustler publisher and famous pornographer, Larry Flynt) once said, "I thought all Christians hated me." Our mission must reflect the same as Jesus'--seeking and saving the lost. In the course of that mission, we must be known as those who love people toward God and not those who hate people toward the world. Jesus demonstrated that relationships were the pathway to becoming salt and light to a sexually deviant world. Christians offer hope to those who are trapped between two polarities. The first is a permissive, all embracing culture that defends the freedom of people to destroy themselves and others through pornography. The second is impulse to free the world from "dirty pictures" and all the people who look at them. We should choose the better way of engagement for gospel transformation with Jesus. The very purpose of His life was to release people from the power and the penalty of sin. When considering the pornification of the American culture, one can easily become angry with those on the front edge of creating this phenomenon. The Hugh Hefners, the movie directors, the photographers, the investors and the actors all deserve a little angst. Right? Yet are they completely to blame? The issue we then face is "Who will love them if Christians decide to hate them?" Maybe then "we" consumers, with the insatiable desire to sin and be morbidly entertained no matter the consequences should be confronted. Often times the best the local church can offer porn addicts is the command to turn off their computer and thus modify their behavior. Who will love the porn addict in our pew? Who will disciple them into true spiritual victory? Will churches be willing to put in the long, difficult hours that are sometimes necessary to see deliverance? Can we call on the legislators and defenders of freedom of speech to task? Those who believe that Americans have an inalienable right to pornify the culture and that porn is a victimless crime deserve some credit for current realities, right? Instead, we should surprise the people with whom we are angry with the love of Jesus. The struggle is so much deeper than most churches know or admit. We could rid the world of pornography and yet never rid the world of sexual deviance. Pornography will return in some other form. Mankind would figure out another way to act out their spiritual condition. We always do. Gene McConnell (powertochange.com) tours college campuses communicating the dangers of pornography. McConnell is a recovering porn addict who saw porn for the first time at age 12. The cost of his addiction was great including his marriage and his ministry. In an interview in Charisma Magazine he weighed in on inadequate solutions. "I believe pornography exists because we have a need for it," said McConnell. "The reason porn exists is that we live empty lives. The issue is intimacy, our greatest need. Take that as into-me-see--you see my life and see who I am, and you love me. That's the greatest need, male and female. But it's also the greatest fear--that if you know the real me, if you see my weaknesses, then you would abandon me." [Charisma] Jesus valued the lost over the social needs of the "found." The truth that Jesus was attractive to socially marginalized unbelievers is often overlooked. People are looking for hope. They found it in the person of Jesus but are not finding it in the people of the church. In Luke, we read "All the tax collectors and sinners were approaching to listen to Him" (Luke 15:1). Notice they were drawn to Him. They could not have possibly believed Jesus hated them. Yet there was something about Him that was attractive. The attractiveness of Jesus should be evident in the life of the church in how we live and in what we teach. In regards to human sexuality, our teaching should be more attractive and inspiring than anything the world has seen, heard, or put on a DVD. Jesus offered hope from sexual and spiritual bondage. He came to free people from the power and presence of sin. Tuesday August 16, 2011 ~ 2 Comments
Next week, I will be meeting with leaders from denominations across North America for the Church Planting Leadership Fellowship. This is a closed meeting (you have to be approved to get the secret handshake) for heads of church planting for denominations and networks. As always, we will share lots of resources, etc. Part of those resources will be strategic missiology tools. Here is one I plan to share on assessment, with a video for potential church planters at the end of the post. _________________________ One of the greatest responsibilities of any church planting organization is the evaluation and development of potential church planters. Church planting organizations who take seriously the stewardship of church planters, their families, and church planting resources understand the need for a formal assessment processes for these candidates. When I look at assessment for paid church planters, I see five basic phases: recruitment, initial screening, initial assessment, in-depth screening (theology, character, chemistry), assessment meeting (1-4 hours), and assessment center (3-4 days). Good assessment is a question of stewardship on several levels: ·The Assessment Process stewards the life and ministry of the planter--helping the planter gain clarity of life and mission. Vocational church planting is not something to embark on without great consideration. ·Initial Screening provides the early conversations to help set and direct the potential planter on the right path. ·Initial Assessment stewards the resources of the organization. If every potential planter has a four-hour interview (or a four-day assessment at a center!), too many resources are poorly expended. ·In-Depth Screening helps your organization go deeper--to be sure that the initial indicators are correct and that there is theological alignment with the organization. ·Assessment Interviews are the first step where a greater amount of time is spent with the candidate--prior steps should have screened some out. At this point, you are looking at screened and eager candidates. ·Assessment Center Experience--this is the final step to be sure that vocational planters have the ministry skills, planting wiring, and interpersonal ability to plant a church. It is important to note that we are talking about paid church planters with a plan toward vocational ministry. It would be counterproductive to apply all of these to, for example, house church planters; where ordinary people lead small and reproducing churches in their home. In that case, I would leave out the assessment center, but the other steps would, with modification in some cases, be appropriate.
Continue reading Are You a Church Planter?.
Wednesday August 10, 2011 ~ 3 Comments
Sexual lust has been present with us since the early days of humanity. But in our modern era we are faced with free, 24/7, private access to images not fit to describe. The Boston Globe online notes:
"Not too long ago, pornography was a furtive profession, its products created and consumed in the shadows. But it has steadily elbowed its way into the limelight, with an impact that can be measured not just by the Internet-fed ubiquity of pornography itself but by the way aspects of the porn sensibility now inform movies, music videos, fashion, magazines, and celebrity culture." [Boston Globe]
Of people who use the Internet, 43% visit pornographic websites. Some 40 million Americans are regular visitors to porn sites, with pornographic downloads represent 35% of all Internet downloads. Of the 40 million regular visitors, 33% are woman, while 70% of men aged 18-24 visit porn sites monthly. [Gizmodo reference below] It's not just adults. "Sex" and "porn" are among the top 5 most frequently searched terms for children under 18. Only 3% of adult websites require verification of age before viewing and some of those merely say, "Are you over 18? Click HERE if yes." [Online Education]
The passion for pornographic images and the corresponding consequences have been around since the beginning of recorded civilization. Phone porn and sexting did not create the pornification phenomena but does enhance the problem. By the way, in a 2009 Harris Survey, 19% of teens surveyed have engaged in sexting. Sexting is defined as "sending, receiving, or forwarding sexually suggestive nude photos through text message or e-mail." Boyfriends and girlfriends received 60% of these messages that were sent by mostly teens under the age of 18. As troubling is the fact that 11% of these sexting teens sent pornographic messages to strangers [Trends & Tudes].
We live in a confused culture filled with moral ambiguities and flawed solutions. The heart without God is the same as it has always been. What we are exposed to is no doubt is more sophisticated than the sexual images drawn in ancient times. But all are symptoms of deeper issues of the heart. People created porn for the same reasons people consume porn--because life without God and other healthy relationships leaves us all very empty.
The use and history of the word "pornography" goes back to the 1850s. The literal meaning of the word comes from the Greek "porne" or "prostitute" and "graphein" or "to write" [Dictionary.com]. So the elements of sex, print, and commerce come together to produce a highly addicting and destructive cultural force. Wendy Erin Foster's thesis at Texas Tech University observes how the pornification of America has affected schools producing what she terms "raunch attitudes." She quotes an interview with "Anne," a teen from Head-Royce private high school in Oakland, California says about sex, "It's an ego thing. We talk about it like at lunch on the patio; people think it's cool. It's competitive: who can hook up with the most guys and who can have sex... like my friend is having her eighteenth birthday party and she wants to have strippers there." [Levy, A. Female Chauvinist Pigs, quoted in Foster, Wendy Erin. Pornification of America: The Bacherorette Party as Symptom of Raunch Culture]
What is deemed as "pornographic" has been debated in U.S. culture for years reaching the U.S. Supreme Court on multiple occasions. One famous case, Jacobellis vs. Ohio (1964) led to an oft-repeated statement by Supreme Court Justice Potter Stewart. He took the position that a French movie shown in Ohio was not pornographic. He refused to clarify what he considered hard-core pornography but and added "But I know it when I see it and the motion picture involved in this case is not that." If anything, Justice Stewart understated his confession [Wikipedia Article]. We Americans "know it when we see it" and we see it all too often. For the follower of Christ it is no help that the government sees a difference between pornography and obscenity, the latter being offensive to local community standards. Obscenity might get you jail time, but plain ole sinful porn can be bought with a loaf of bread at the corner store.
Although accurate statistics on the sale of pornography are difficult to attain, it is estimated to be a 100 billion dollar a year business worldwide. In the U.S. alone 13.6 billion dollars will be spent on porn this year. The technology revolution has created a porn revolution. People of all ages have anonymous access to all types of porn including 24.6 million pornographic websites, 12% of the entire internet total. Around 25% of all internet searches are porn related (68M each day) and 35% of all downloads are pornographic. [Gizmodo]
Each second in the U.S. $3,075 is spent on porn. In that same second 28,000 Internet viewers are looking at porn. Even more staggering is the fact that every 39 minutes an adult sex video is being produced. ["Porn: The Business of Pleasure." Melissa Lee. A CNBC Original Season 1 Episode 15.15 July 2008] The adult video industry will have 800,000,000 rentals this year. The United States is the fourth largest porn purchasers in the world behind China, South Korea, and Japan [Onine Education]. Again, we see it all too often.
As if the millions of people who frequent porn sites monthly were not enough, 34% of other Internet users have experienced unwanted exposure to pornography through pop-up ads, misdirected links or emails, some of the 2.5 billion pornographic emails sent daily. On the extreme end of pornography consumers are those among the 116,000 searches each day for "child pornography." [Gizmodo]
Pornography is everywhere and leaves scars in many place. So, the obvious question is, "What do I do about it?"
There are many excellent resources and I will mention some in the next few weeks, but let me mention Tim Challies' E-book on the subject. The title is exceedingly helpful and points to the bigger issue: that this is a toxin and requires detoxification because pornography twists and distorts love and sex. Challies explains some of the warping:
Sex is tender. Do you see tenderness in pornography or do you see violence? Sex is sweet. Do you see sweetness in the pornography you watch or is it degrading? Sex is selfless and giving. But isn't pornography all about the getting and about the conquest? Is it not about having my needs met now? Sex has boundaries. But doesn't pornography suppose that anything I feel or anything I desire is acceptable simply because I desire it? Pornography scoffs at boundaries.
Tim's whole book is worth a read (but for adults only). In the meantime, I will be talking more about this problem on the Janet Mefferd show this afternoon. You can listen all over the country, or click on the link to listen online. I will be on between 3-:3:30 central time.
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Continue reading Pornification: Just the Facts.
Tuesday August 2, 2011 ~ 12 Comments
Here is more of the text from that article: The issues of human sexuality are impacting evangelical churches in a profound way. The church must recognize and address the changing sexual mores of the world. Sex and sexuality outside of marriage has been around for millennia but the current is moving to new places. The famous line "not that there is anything wrong with that" from a 1993 Seinfeld episode is an example of a new era in our culture. The main character, Jerry and his friend George were trying to not be seen as gay but neither did they want to come across as homophobic. They repeated the line throughout the episode in an effort to make the distinction. Acceptance of people's diverse sexual decisions is expected and demanded by American culture. We live under relentless pressure to "be conformed" to the world versus "being transformed" (Romans 12:2). For the book, Lost and Found, we surveyed unchurched young adults to ask "If you were considering visiting or joining a church would knowing that the church did not welcome or affirm homosexual members positively or negatively impact your decision?" Eighty-three percent of the "always unchurched" young adults ages 20-30 responded "negatively." Even among the most friendly unchurched (often church drop-outs) who were still somewhat open to the church, fifty-two percent said believing a church is not open to homosexuals would negatively impact their decision to attend. Alternative expressions of sexuality are not just normal, they are expected and to be affirmed. We see diverse sexual ideas and activities everywhere. Some porn stars are more than mainstream; they are business people who call the shots on their filming, their books, DVDs and websites. A recent on-stage lip-lock between Scarlett Johansson and Sandra Bullock made MTV's "The Best Girl-On-Girl List" (yes, that's a category now). Pop stars like Lady Gaga ('Poker Face,' 2008) and Katie Perry ('I Kissed a Girl and I liked It,' 2008) blur the line between porn star and pop star. Their popular songs address issues like oral sex, bi-sexuality, and lesbianism. Well known secular record producer Mike Stock says he believes children are being "sexualized" by popular culture. "The music industry has gone too far. It's not about me being old-fashioned. It's about keeping values that are important in the modern world. These days you can't watch modern stars like Britney Spears or Lady Gaga with a two-year-old. Ninety-nine per cent of the charts is R 'n' B, and 99 per cent of that is soft pornography. Kids are being forced to grow up too young." [Daily Mail UK]. We've come a long way when secular record producers are concern about our sexual mores. Lawyer and author John W. Whitehead recently observed, "Children between the ages of 8 and 18 spend approximately 30-120 minutes a day watching music videos -- 75% of which contain sexually suggestive materials, and with the advent of portable technology, children's television and music are often unmonitored by parents or guardians. Not only does this accelerate adolescent sexual behavior (girls between the ages of 12-14 are two times more likely to engage in sexual activity after being exposed to sexual imagery), but it increases the likelihood of more sexual partners." [Huffington Post] This is not a war on Perry or Gaga. Remember before them was Madonna and Brittany. They are the commercial products of our culture, not the root issue. When they go away (and they eventually will), they will be replaced unless our hearts change. Looking more closely at the pornification of our culture will help answer a critical question - What does the world of the people we are trying to reach look like? Most of the Christian community appears overwhelmed or volitionally disengaged that what existed before in secret is now "shouted from the rooftops" concerning sex. Being overwhelmed about how to address the issue - we don't. Choosing to disengage, we allow a culture--and our own children--the go-ahead to live by the world's standards. The church has been given all that is needed to address sexuality from a biblical perspective. The Scriptures clearly teaches God's plan for sex. Yet we stumble awkwardly past the issues. If the church refuses to address the issues not only do we become irrelevant, but we leave the conversation open to others who feel more free to do so. Who will be the "salt" and "light" source of biblical guidance to a culture "gone wild?" The church must provide a clear and robust biblical ethic of sexuality. Although it may be uncomfortable for Christians and churches to discuss, these are issues on the hearts of young Americans. Addressing the issues of marriage, pornography, and homosexuality in biblical ways will enable a church to engage with its community and thrive in many ways. We must resist the temptation to acquiesce to culture through silence. The church should hold up the "new alternative lifestyle" (men married to women for life in a sexually pure covenant relationship) and live it out. This is a very real issue that impacts churches and leaders. In yesterday's Lausanne World Pulse, Brent Lindquist spoke about our need to respond to the "pornagraphy tsumani." I will be writing more on ways to deal with the issue later, but in the meantime his article is worth a read. Lindquist explains how the church should deal with the issues: [T]he majority of our church and culture has been impacted to some degree by pornography. If that is the case, then many of us are in recovery from pornography. If this does apply to us, then we are bringing this secret out of the darkness and into the light. “Into the light” means acknowledging to others that we are struggling with, or growing through, the effects of this problem. In our weakness we, through “He,” will become strong... Waiting until people have fallen or discovered to have fallen usually means they are put into a therapeutic program. These programs are good and needed, but we should be focusing our efforts on intervention earlier in this process. This is where accountability and purity enter. Certainly, people who have fallen need accountability groups and processes and need to re-establish commitments to personal purity. But we, as leaders ourselves, need to seek personal purity as part of our regular lifelong spiritual journey. In part 1 of the series, I was struck and burdened by the comments in the post. Some shared their struggle and other shared solutions. Feel free to do so in the comments. Wednesday July 27, 2011 ~ 16 Comments
I recently wrote a journal article for the Assemblies of God Enrichment Journal. I will be turning that into a series here at the blog. The entire issue is worth your time and you can access it here. Here is part 1: Introducing the Issue. The world seemed shocked by the Tiger Woods scandal. The media feasted on the stories, rumors, and drama that surrounded Tiger's life of undisputed sexually infidelity. But who created Tiger Woods? From American hero worship to a dysfunctional childhood and everything in between, multiple factors contributed to Tiger being Tiger. His saga has emerged as one of the most sad and shocking stories in American sports history. But one thing is for sure--Tiger's story is only a symptom of our sex-obsessed, pornified culture. Even greater, our obsession with Tiger's story may be an indicator of where we are as much as where he is. Sexual deviance is now the norm, not the exception. "Porn is... the new universally shared experience. The nation has been 'pornified'. It's everywhere. It's open 24/7. And chances are good, judging from research into internet habits, that before or after reading this post, a high percentage of you will visit a porn site. . . The point is if you did, you are hardly alone." [www.psychologytoday.com/print/4041 accessed 8/29/10] Although the world has largely forgotten Tiger Woods by now, the pattern of his downfall is rehearsed in millions of households everyday. On the blog we are going to be exploring this topic-- taboo though it may be-- over the next several weeks. I would love to see some healthy, encouraging discussion in the comments section. Let's also try to let Philippians 4:8 serve as the guiding principle of how speak, even when we discuss. "Finally brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable --if there is any moral excellence and if there is any praise --dwell on these things." http://msb.to/Ph4:8 To read the lengthier article I wrote for the Enrichment Journal you can access it here. An infographic included in this post includes many more porn "stats," but also has some language you may find offensive. Click the link to read the rest of the entry to see the graphic. Continue reading The Pornification of American Culture.
Tuesday February 8, 2011 ~ 33 Comments
We had a good conversation in response to Collin Hanson's article in Christianity Today regarding ministry to Muslims and some how to approach the translation of "son of God." In response to some of the material covered in that article, and other articles by Rick brown my friend, "Rod," offers his thoughts below. Due to his situation, I cannot use his real name. But, I know Rod well. He has written his Ph.D. dissertation on Islam, has studied 10 languages, and lives incarnationally among Muslims doing evangelism and church planting in Asia. Brief Thoughts on Rick Brown's articles, Explaining the Biblical Term 'Son(s) of God' in Muslim Contexts and Translating the Biblical Term Son(s) of God in Muslim Contexts. Monday August 2, 2010 ~ 3 Comments
My article "Preaching Transformation: The Change We Need" is up at Sermon Central. Here's an excerpt: The church can, at times, communicate the need for change in peoples' lives, and it ends up understood as some low-level therapeutic moralistic deism where a faraway God makes your life better and makes you a better person. But that is not the gospel. We don't want to produce good religious people. We see what becomes of good religious people from the encounters Jesus had with the Pharisees. God wants--as should we--to see people transformed at a spiritual level rather than a behavioral level. You can check out the rest of the article here. Monday June 14, 2010 ~ 9 Comments
Not long ago, I told you about my Christianity Today article on the state of denominations in America. The article has been posted online, so I thought I would publish a few more excerpts. Continue reading Christianity Today Article on Denominations.
Wednesday June 9, 2010 ~ 11 Comments
I recently wrote an article called "The Blessings of the New Media" for Tabletalk Magazine. I shared four ways that social media can assist churches and leaders. The first way is community: Those who attempt to find community exclusively online will miss out on the fullness and authenticity of relationships God intends for us to have face to face. Gathering together (Heb. 10:25) requires feet and faces, not just electrons and avatars. Therefore, when a Christian seeks to be a part of a local church only by live streaming the worship service and conversing on message boards, he is short-circuiting the fellowship of the saints and his own spiritual growth. Yet, I do not believe that virtual community and real community are enemies. I see them more as friends, the former as a help to the latter. Unfortunately, for too many theologically-minded pastors, their aversion to the abuses of social media has distracted them from the opportunity they provide. The second way is communication. As I said in the article, the age of the bulletin may not have completely passed, but these days people rely on so many other forms of communication to stay abreast of current events. The speed with which news can travel using social media is nothing short of amazing. For example, when my friend Matt Chandler had a seizure last year and I sent a tweet asking for prayers, the "re-tweet" function had the request going out to huge numbers of people within minutes. Matt was a trending topic on Twitter that day, which means that he was one of the ten most mentioned phrases or words in all of Twitter. People all over the world knew about his situation and prayed for Matt thanks to Twitter (note his name in the lower right corner). The final two ways listed are inspiration and better introductions. Blogs, Facebook and Twitter all provide ways to share inspiring thoughts and gospel-centered messages (often in 140 characters or less!). And social media also allows people to share things about themselves more fully and with a broader group of people. We are actually getting to know each other better in some ways through the use of electronic media. These things can never take the place of human contact, but to ignore them and the role they can play in fostering community is unwise. They are helpful tools that the world is using, and that the church can benefit from. As I consider social media in the twenty-first century, I can't help but think of the spread of the gospel and the church's growth in the first century. Communication was greatly aided then by the common language of Koine Greek. Since the New Testament was written in a language accessible to so many, the Word of God was able to penetrate different cultures rapidly. Perhaps today the new media will be the "common language" for the masses to hear the gospel.
Tuesday June 8, 2010 ~ 0 Comments
We are wrapping up our work this week on the Outreach Magazine/LifeWay Research Special Report on the 100 Largest and Fastest Growing churches. If you would like to report the growth your church has experienced this past year, you can download the submission form here. We would love to hear from you even if your church has experienced some great growth. We do ask that only staff members of churches submit forms. If you are an enthusiastic member or volunteer leader of your church, feel free to let your staff know about the project and where to get the form. If you are interested in knowing more, I wrote this post a few months ago to talk about the project and to explain why we think it is a good thing. Look forward to hearing from you! Tuesday May 18, 2010 ~ 9 Comments
I've written an article for Pastors.com that cautions against planting or pastoring a church in your head. I'm talking about the danger of adopting a model of church without giving proper consideration to the people and culture God is sending you to plant or pastor. In short, we need a vision for the people before we develop a vision for a particular model of church. Here are a few excerpts from "Don't Plant or Pastor a Church in Your Head." Continue reading Do Not Plant or Pastor a Church in Your Head.
Tuesday March 2, 2010 ~ 17 Comments
Here is my most recent column in this month's Outreach Magazine. If you were a subscriber, you would have already read it and many others. So, click here to subscribe. Continue reading March Outreach Mag Column: Church Birth Control.
Friday January 15, 2010 ~ 10 Comments
My article on Christians' use of bad stats is now online at Christianity Today. You can read the full article here. Here is the introduction here: The reporter's question was one of the best I had ever been asked. "Why do you evangelicals love to make up and say such bad things about yourselves?" Take a look at the article and come back and discuss here. Thursday January 7, 2010 ~ 23 Comments
I am writing an article that will be "attached" to John 20:21 in the forthcoming HCSB Study Bible. Here is my first draft of the article. What would you add, delete, or change? Your input is solicited with one caveat: I cannot add more than one additional paragraph without deleting others. It is, after all, not one of those ginormous study bibles. And, I can't / won't use your words, but feel free to share a paragraph if you want-- or just a suggestion.
Friday January 1, 2010 ~ 0 Comments
Christianity Today asked several of us to answer, "What was the most significant change in Christianity over the past decade?" I gave more than one answer (I could not resist) but they chose one focused on North America. Before I share mine, let me say that I agree with Olasky that the big global story is China, particularly the growth of Christianity. He wrote: Continue reading Biggest Changes in Christianity in the Last Decade.
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