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Friday May 18, 2012 ~ 143 Comments
Update #12 at 1:30p.m. Friday: Just got a good cry out with Donna-- but it was a good cry-- the kind you want to have. We are seeing some light at the end of the tunnel with Kaitlyn. It is like we can breathe again. The heart issues that knocked us for a spin aren't necessarily related to the illness-- she may just have a big heart. ;-) And, it is not that much bigger than normal. It is something we will watch, but about 5% of kids her age have a left ventricle this size-- and she is all heart! Grin. I am glad they took it so seriously-- with two rushed tests last night and then some concern about enlargement-- but I am very relieved at this point. Sometimes they find things like this because they are looking so closely, but they were always there. Also, there is also a chance that it is related to high fever (which she had for almost ten days). Either way, the heart issue is no longer a major concern for the moment (and probably not a concern long term-- though we will follow up). So, here is what we know now about our sweet Kaitlyn:
So, now we are moving ahead-- and it feels like progress. She is getting a little better each day (and has been for a couple days), but it is still frustratingly slow. But, with a firmer diagnosis, the Kawaski/cardiac issues behind us, and her getting a little better each day, it feels like this nightmare is slowly coming to an end. We are very hopeful about going home tomorrow-- and that is motivating Kaitlyn as well. She thinks seven days in a hospital bed is enough! (We agree!) Kaitlyn is still very week, sleeps most of the time, and is not up for visitors, but she is moving in the right direction. Thanks so much for all the prayers-- please keep praying for Kaitlyn.
Day 6 in the hospital... day 11 of being sick. She is drinking more and now eating a little, so we have some good news. But, like always, we seem to have not-so-good news as well. We just received word that her cardiac tests point to an enlarge left atrium of her heart. That could be related to the disease or it could be just that she has a slightly enlarged heart. I don't know much of that that means right now since I've been focusing my attention on Erlichia... then Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever... then Kawasaki Disease. Also, we are expecting specialists to come by with more details before noon. We've had three doctors visit thus far this morning. Once the big Infectious Disease doc comes by I will update one more time. More consults, and hopefully details, coming today. Please keep praying for Kaitlyn.
The big news today is that the Infectious Disease (ID) team is involved and pursuing another avenue (Kawaski Disease) while the pediatric docs are pursuing Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever (RMSF). As far as I am concerned, let's treat her for EVERYTHING and get this thing over. Dear readers from the Vandy hospital staff: I am not upset by this-- all ideas are welcome and the first one who figures it out gets a big hug from me.
I am thankful that Kaitlyn must be the most prayed for girl in America right now. Hundreds of thousands of people have seen tweets and blogs and, I hope, prayed. Our "elders" prayed Wednesday and since then we have seen slow improvement. Tonight, though, were the new tests-- cardiac tests. (I really had a hard time watching them do two cardiac tests on my daughter.) Tomorrow will bring more blood tests. This is all because of the Kawaski Disease concern. Please pray with us for no cardiac damage (they have consistently heard a heart murmur, but that is not uncommon in severe times of illness). We need a good, clear heart reading and some good bloodwork tomorrow. I just cancelled my trip to the Philippines and Japan. Jaclyn and I were supposed to leave tomorrow. I was speaking at Victory Church in Manila on Sunday, an amazing church with over fifty thousand people at all their sites on a weekend. Then we had some groundbreaking meetings with the leaders of several national Christian organizations and some conferences in Manila. Then we were off to Tokyo to preach at Tokyo Baptist Church and help make connections for church planting in partnership with the Upstream Collective and the IMB. I have sent my apologies to all involved. To be transparent, I do not understand what the Lord is doing in all this, but I trust Him regardless. To be even more honest, someone else can preach, teach, and lead this weekend. I am very disappointed, but only I can be dad to Kaitlyn. Right now, I am about to go to bed in her hospital room, just 6 feet from her. At 1a.m. and 5a.m. I get up and try to get her to drink and eat a little. Only dad can do that. I am privileged to do that. Please pray that tomorrow we will get great news on cardiac tests, continue to progress, and start talking about an end date to this long nightmare.
We had some progress and some new problems. The good news is that she is drinking better and eating a little-- enough that the IV is out for the time being, though she has to drink 2oz. an hour or they put it back in. I am giving her $1 each time she drinks it! Seems like money well spent. ;-) The new problems have to do with an unclear diagnosis and more tests. The Infectious Disease team is now more heavily involved because, although she is doing better, she is not doing "better enough" (my terms). If this is bacterial, the antibiotic should be working better by now. But, it is hard to tell for sure at this point. Either way, having four infectious disease doctors in the room is both comforting and disconcerting. They say we may be at the hospital for a while-- certainly through the weekend. We are about to undergo new tests. If it is Kawasaki Disease (now back on the table), we need to do heart tests, blood tests, etc. But, they don't know what it is or why she is not responded better. So, the treatment is: keep treating as if it is Erlichia or Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever, but begin some defensive medicine in case it is Kawasaki Disease. Needless to say, we are a bit demoralized by the whole thing today. However, it is not like Wednesday morning so we are glad for that. We are about to start some heart testing right now. Please keep praying for Kaitlyn.
We are on day 5 at the hospital and day 11 with this illness. This morning's blood tests came back indicating some progress-- levels are trending in the right direction. However, there are still concerns and they are bringing in some specialists today. We don't have any hospital release date at this point-- Kaitlyn still does not want to drink or eat, sleeps most of the time, and is very lethargic. However, we are not as alarmed as we were Wednesday morning. She is still very sick, but yesterday morning was really bad, and we are better than yesterday morning. That is good. Now we want to move to "better."
I will post again when we have more information. For more information on our location situation, I talked to Tom Wilemon, a reporter for The Tennessean, yesterday to get some details about his recent story. Some excerpts: Cases of tick-borne Rocky Mountain spotted fever are up 533 percent this spring compared to the same period last year, the Tennessee Department of Health said Thursday... Be sure to read the whole story here. I wish I could say that we started the Doxycycline during the first few days-- we did not. We were not really into full treatment until the 6th or 7th day as she did not have the symptoms until then (as the article says, symptoms appear between two and 14 days). The timing may explain why she is on the "wrong side" of the recovery bell curve as we did not have adequate symptoms and tests until Sunday.
Lots of folks have commented on these diseases and the need for specialists, etc. For those who know me personally, they know that I am not a subtle or a passive man. However, Vanderbilt is one of the best and they have a strong reputation in many areas, including pediatric infectious diseases. I assure you-- I am making certain that I get my questions answered and the treatment is very appropriate for how things are progressing. We feel we are in very good hands. And, for the Vandy staff who have read this, all is good with me. ;-) Thanks for your comments, notes, and suggestions. I read them all, but we are not up for visitors now. Please keep praying for my Kaitlyn. Today is the day we want a big turnaround.
Some good news and some irritating (though not necessarily bad) news. First, the good. We had some improvement this afternoon. The morning was her lowest point yet in the nine days she has been sick and the four days in the hospital. However, the afternoon was more positive-- and the first time things stopped getting a little worse each day. Kaitlyn actually ate two small meatballs, her first food in three or four days, and got in a wheelchair and Donna drove her around for a bit-- then Kaitlyn even walked around for a little while. That's good news. We were very concerned this morning but she rallied a bit this afternoon. The doctors (and the Stetzers) were pleased. Second, the irritating. The frustrating news is that the tests I mentioned below came back as "inconclusive." This is not uncommon, I am told, as the "markers" take time to show up-- they want to test again in two weeks. However, based on the course of the disease thus far, they are quite convinced it is Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever. Based on my newly acquired Ph.D. in Wikipedia, WebMD and the CDC, I think they are right. ;-) Regardless, I've requested (and I think they were going to do it anyway) to meet with more infectious disease specialists in the morning. I am with my other daughters and we just got out a good cry-- which was kind of nice in a weird way. Now we are ready for an even better day tomorrow. Tomorrow will be the fifth day at Vanderbilt and the tenth day she has had a fever... and we'd really like it to be our last. Tomorrow is key for the turnaround our elders prayed for today-- please pray for Kaitlyn that she drinks, eats, and continues to recover. Thanks to all of you for your prayers and kind messages.
Well, we really are ready to get some confirmed information and really could use some good news. A quick update: Ricetssia is also a possibility and we are hoping for test back tomorrow or Friday. That is also when we expect the Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever test to return. We've been told to expect a hospital stay of several more days unless there is a major turnaround today-- still no eating, drinking and she is doing lots of sleeping. Also, if she does show some improvement today, I've "requested," and they've agreed, to bring in another Infectious Disease specialist tomorrow morning. Today, we called for the elders of our church (our Grace Church staff, basically), anointed her with oil, and prayed for a complete and total healing. This probably freaks some people out as they equate this with a "last ditch" effort. We don't-- it is just a biblical thing to do-- and we are not at a "last ditch." We just think that when you are really sick (and after four days at the hospital, I'd say you are), you are sick enough to call in the elders. James 5:13-15 says: Is anyone among you suffering? He should pray. Is anyone cheerful? He should sing praises. Is anyone among you sick? He should call for the elders of the church, and they should pray over him after anointing him with olive oil in the name of the Lord. The prayer of faith will save the sick person, and the Lord will restore him to health; if he has committed sins, he will be forgiven.
So, we are praying and I/we are getting a bit more aggressive with what we do next... keep praying for my girl, Kaitlyn, please. Continue reading Updates on Kaitlyn's Health #PrayForKaitlyn.
Wednesday May 16, 2012 ~ 0 Comments
Eight Warning Signs for Forced Terminations of Pastors -- Thom Rainer Christianity Today summarized some fascinating information about forced pastor terminations. Using the combined research of the National Congregations Study and the Review of Religious Research, the magazine noted eight warning signs or predictors for forced terminations. Keep in mind that this research does not tell the why of terminations; rather it deals with certain categories where pastors are more likely to lose their jobs. 1. If the church had a recent church fight. Continue reading Morning Roundup - May 16, 2012.
Tuesday May 15, 2012 ~ 1 Comments
I am not sure it looks like Canada either. The Canadian example is different: while Americans pursue "life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness," the Canadians revolve around the spoke of "peace, order, and good government." That has been reflected in how people see religion as well. Yet, I do see America's possible faith future in Australia's present-- a happy people largely unconcerned about the Church while pursuing the betterment of society. Note that I did not say that they were unconcerned about spiritual things, but they just do not see the church (and, more importantly, its gospel) as the answer. Continue reading Australia Reflections, part 6: Pray for Australia.
Tuesday May 15, 2012 ~ 0 Comments
I encourage you to join us today-- and each Tuesday-- at 2:00 p.m. CDT, for The Exchange. On last week's episode, I discussed my new book Subversive Kingdom. Here is a clip from that show. You can watch the entire episode here. Continue reading The Exchange: The Story of Scripture.
Monday May 14, 2012 ~ 0 Comments
God's missionary heart was obvious at Babel. Men conspired together in same language to become famous, but instead they became infamous. Heathenism (self-glory) was born. God had previously instructed his people to scatter (Gen. 9:1) after the flood and multiply (His mission). And their answer to God's missionary call was a simple, "No, thank you, we would prefer to stay together and build a tower to heaven." Our sin nature (DNA) includes a natural preference to a warm huddle of people just like us, as opposed to being scattered into the unknown. We can get more done if we all stay together, right? But remember the question: What does God want? Monday May 14, 2012 ~ 1 Comments
I've been thinking often about this subject lately. I do not get much feedback except when I teach at a seminary-- then I can see the evaluations of my students. I greatly value that. My church and my speaking engagements don't generally do that (though our pastoral apprentice team is about to start). I thought this article from Justin Buzzard is helpful. Leaders Need Feedback -- Justin Buzzard About 2 months ago I started realizing how I didn't want to hear too much feedback (criticism) about the church because of how close my heart is intertwined with this church, with this dream that God birthed in me. I started talking to God about this and asking him to help me. This was happening at the same time that I was taking a closer look at the DNA and culture of our church and noticing some changes that needed to be made (nothing major here, but still important). I told God that I didn't want to be an insecure leader who ignores truth and that I wanted to set a stronger culture in our church, especially among the leadership, where loving feedback is easily given and easily received. Though 6 months earlier I'd already put in place a provisional elder board and a solid deacon board who I repeatedly invite to be iron in my life-to love me, critique me, and hold me accountable, I felt that something more was needed. So, I did something that was scary for me to do. This last Sunday I held a "holy discontent" meeting at my house with all the leaders in our church. I sent an email to all the leaders 7 days before the meeting and laid out the situation: that I was full of deep contentment in God and so happy over the life of our church, but that I was also full of holy discontent over some status quo realities in our church and that I'm the one ultimately responsible. I told my team that I didn't ever want myself to get in the way of what God is doing in our church, that I don't want any of our egos screwing things up, and to prepare for a meeting at my house where we would air all of our "holy discontentment" and then spend some extended time in prayer. Doing this ignited some great (and hard) emails and conversations throughout the week. Then, on Sunday night, we had the meeting. And it was awesome! All the leaders expressed their feedback in a manner that was both humble and loving, and in a way that didn't compromise the truth or mince words. It was the best, most important, and most powerful meeting we've had as leaders. What stood at the center of our meeting was the gospel of Jesus Christ and the vision we have for this church. With Jesus at the center, egos are left to the side and deep unity and love can be experienced among leadership teams and in a church. Continue reading Morning Roundup - May 14, 2012.
Saturday May 12, 2012 ~ 1 Comments
Yesterday, I mentioned the Mother's Day story on the front page of USAToday. You can read all the research information there-- including a graph with details. Today, the full story is online. The intro was great: Hold the chocolate and flowers. Hold the brunch reservations. What mom may really want for Mother's Day is for the whole gang to go to church first.
Continue reading Mother's Day, USAToday, and Church Attendance.
Friday May 11, 2012 ~ 6 Comments
If you saw the front page of of USAToday this morning, you saw a new study by LifeWay Research shows that other than Easter and Christmas, Mother's Day may be the most likely day people will attend church. In the survey of 1,000 protestant pastors, Mother's Day (59 percent) ranked third behind the standard religious powerhouse holidays of Easter (93 percent) and Christmas (84 percent). Here are a few key parts: How much "holy" folks invest in either holiday is shaped by tradition, and, quite simply, the calendar. Father's Day falls during summer vacation season. "If both holidays were the second Sunday in May, my hunch is attendance would be nearly the same," says Pastor Ross Sawyers of 121 Community Church in Grapevine, Texas. Family dynamics matter, too. Dads may be church-averse, but moms have clout. "Christmas, Easter, and Mother's Day have become the three days of male holy obligation when their wives and mothers are able to guilt them into the pews," says David Murrow. People play favorites when it comes to gifts, too. Pam Danzinger of Unity Marketing , which tracks shopping, says 50% plan to buy a gift for mom, but only a third will shop for Dad. You can read the LifeWay Research release here. From the release: Friday May 11, 2012 ~ 1 Comments
Earlier this week at EdStetzer.com
Continue reading Weekly Wrap & Church Signs of the Week: Traffic.
Thursday May 10, 2012 ~ 7 Comments
"The presidential election will tell if Americans view support for gay marriage as a political sin but the vote is in on whether it is theologically sinful -- and it's a close call" writes Cathy Lynn Grossman of USAToday on the heels of President Obama announcing he is now in favor of same-sex marriage. Grossman's article highlights LifeWay Research's release of a new study showing American adults are split on whether or not homosexuality is a sin. The random-sample survey of more than 2,000 Americans asked "Do you believe homosexual behavior is a sin?" Forty-four percent said yes and 43 percent said no. Thirteen percent were not sure. These results are not too surprising based on other recent polling data. In Gallup's 2011 Values and Beliefs poll, they reported 56 percent of Americans consider gay and lesbian relations morally acceptable. Some highlights of the research:
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We are meeting with some infectious disease specialists today for a few reasons. First, Kaityln is on the wrong side of the bell curve for recovery. In other words, most people would be doing better at this point. Second, we really don't have a conclusive diagnosis and some tests are confusing. (They are operating on the basis of Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever with lots of good reasons for that diagnosis.) Finally, they are probably going to run more tests for addition clarity-- but the infectious disease folks are going to order those.
Update #6 at 2p.m. Wednesday: 
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